Another moving day has come and gone.
As always, I have been blessed with help from unexpected sources, and was able to get everything done by the walk-through time. This move, in some ways, was both the most and least stressful move I have ever made.
It's been the most stressful because I simply had more stuff to move this time than I ever had: last time I had a moving day, I didn't have a 300 lb couch or a kitchenfull of dishes. Also, I took no time off (except moving day) in order to get it done.
I started packing almost a month ago. Carload by carload, my stuff began to disappear, until last Friday, a very sunny day, a friend, my fiance, and my future father-in-law came to help me move. We loaded. Then, some stayed to help me clean. I had felt like I was "doing it alone" for a long time, and had felt worn down. Exhausted. My nerves were frayed, and I was wondering how in the world I was going to do this. It seemed that the box agony would never end.
But it did end. And it ended well, too! I am relieved.
Right before the end, on Thursday night, two girls who had met me one time before came and helped me for an hour and a half. My HT, who I have grown to greatly appreciate and admire as the best of friends, came and helped me not only move dirt, but also took apart my keyboard for me and helped me figure out how to take apart my couch for removal the next day.
And my lovely fiance came and helped. He lifted boxes and a bed and cleaned and put up with my moving-day jitters. He told me "we've got this" --and made it be so. He hugged me when I got discouraged and encouraged me to take little breaks. He offered me water at random intervals because he's thoughtful and knows I get dehydrated easily and can get caught up in things and forget to take care of myself.
He tells me he is here to take care of me. Then he does things to back it up. And that, dear readers, is why I am moving. There are things I will miss about my neighborhood and my apartment (my $20 utility bill, and the grocery store across the street, and the water three blocks away). But when I consider that I am gaining two boys and a man who love me dearly, that seems like small potatoes. Small potatoes with eyes in them that nobody would want to eat anyway.
On moving day, my fiance showed me something that his younger son wrote on his homework. The assignment was to fix the sentence, which read something like, "my parents got Married on june 19, 1990." He fixed the sentence -- not exactly as instructed, because our L does not like to do things that way, but it was correct nevertheless -- because above, he inserted a caret, to make the sentence read, "My parents are [getting married] on Earth Day."
Normally, I would wish more for my child to excel in school. But on this day, for this assignment, it meant more to me than any silly A+ that he would write that on his paper. It made me cry. I will cherish it and remember during the hard times how much he loves me and how happy I was in that moment.
So, take that, moving stress! And take that, school system! Our family is becoming official!
Sunday, April 3, 2016
Tuesday, March 29, 2016
easter firsts
This Easter, I was a bunny, a cow, an old woman, a nostalgia food maker, an adventurer, a player of games, and a mom.
I made Easter baskets for my boys -- all of them, and pretended I was the Easter bunny.
I plotted with my stepson and we snuck into my soon-to-be-husband's room and woke him up by making very realistic cow noises at him.
I found my first white hair. It's kind of a relief that I'm not going to be grey. It was long and beautiful, but it made me kind of wistful and almost sad.
I made my family Jello, like my mom used to. The kids hated it. They also hate PB&J sandwiches. They adore calamari. They never cease to amaze me with what they will and won't eat.
I went on an adventure. I had a nine-year-old knight with a machete hack a path through the thorns in the woods for me. There were fallen logs and tiny bogs lots of mud. He did a very good job of picking a path. He was definitely empowered by being in charge and got great enjoyment of slashing. He has a box full of swords. It's clear that all that air practice has transferred into useful skills.
We played a game. I came in dead last. In a way, it was kind of nice.
And I realized that moms are really, really important.
I am grateful for my family -- for the family I was born into, for the friends who are now like family, for the family of friends who feel like family, too, and for the family I will marry into. We have our problems, and there are some days where I feel sad that we are not as close as I would like to be. But we also have love - lots of it! And goodwill, and hope. I am hoping that in my 31st year I can become closer to each member of my family -- both those of blood and "by love," as my younger stepson would say.
I made Easter baskets for my boys -- all of them, and pretended I was the Easter bunny.
I plotted with my stepson and we snuck into my soon-to-be-husband's room and woke him up by making very realistic cow noises at him.
I found my first white hair. It's kind of a relief that I'm not going to be grey. It was long and beautiful, but it made me kind of wistful and almost sad.
I made my family Jello, like my mom used to. The kids hated it. They also hate PB&J sandwiches. They adore calamari. They never cease to amaze me with what they will and won't eat.
I went on an adventure. I had a nine-year-old knight with a machete hack a path through the thorns in the woods for me. There were fallen logs and tiny bogs lots of mud. He did a very good job of picking a path. He was definitely empowered by being in charge and got great enjoyment of slashing. He has a box full of swords. It's clear that all that air practice has transferred into useful skills.
We played a game. I came in dead last. In a way, it was kind of nice.
And I realized that moms are really, really important.
I am grateful for my family -- for the family I was born into, for the friends who are now like family, for the family of friends who feel like family, too, and for the family I will marry into. We have our problems, and there are some days where I feel sad that we are not as close as I would like to be. But we also have love - lots of it! And goodwill, and hope. I am hoping that in my 31st year I can become closer to each member of my family -- both those of blood and "by love," as my younger stepson would say.
Monday, February 22, 2016
night changes
Something special happened to me about a week ago:
It started with a grumpy, stressed, slightly-put-out face on a Monday.
I was tired and out of sorts. My person had asked me to come up to hang out with him and his sister. A special treat for her, he said. She really wanted to see me, he said.
I did not want to go. I wanted to see his sister, and him, of course, but I did not want to expend the effort to make it happen. But because he asked so sweetly, and because I love him, I went, even though I knew I would probably regret it later, as I had a big test for work I needed to study for, and the trip up there was eating into my precious study time -- the test was in three days.
I left work late, due to circumstances beyond my control. Then, traffic was terrible, of course.
Upon my arrival, the house was in disarray. There were children running about and nerf wars happening and pizza left semi-unattended in the oven, but no sign of my man.
Grumpy cat-face came out. I was peeved: after taking the effort to drive in traffic almost fifty miles, he was not to be found in the house. Neither was his sister. Annoyed, I took over the pizza watch from the oldest nephew, who was doing homework, and stewed inwardly. "You could be studying for the test. Go out and get your study materials." I boiled a little. "Why are you even here? Why is he NOT here? He doesn't even have the decency to be here!" (I must have been really hungry about this point.)
And then he came home and said his sister had been called away to help a friend set up an event. I was practically eye-rolling at this point. Then, a few slices of soggy pizza later, he says that he wants to go check out what his sister has been working on. Suspicious. But I get in the car, even though it's almost bedtime for the kids and I am bemoaning the fact that I even came up at all, feeling it hadn't been worth the trip.
We parked and I saw only one car: his sister's. This was my first clue. Then he got a backpack out of the car. A second clue. Then we walked for forever with no sign of anyone. A third clue. The last clue I needed was when we got to a muddy patch and he said, "This is the only place where it's muddy." I thought, "Hmm, he has been across this path, and recently, too. I bet he doesn't realize he just gave himself away."
The stars were so bright. We could see Orion hanging low.
Then I saw some lights flickering through the trees. He had set up a mini wonderland...candles in large mason jars and twinkle lights on ivy-covered trees, along with music piped through a portable speaker. I was walking along, trying not to expect anything, and honestly a little unsure how I felt, as just that morning I had been conflicted and although I knew I wanted to be with him, I was waiting for a final, settled feeling that to say 'yes' was the only course -- and that feeling had not yet come.
We continued to walk along and then he tugged my hand. I was freaking out inside, looking everywhere and nowhere at the same time, especially not at him -- and then as I turned he got down on one knee and murmured lovely things and asked if I would be his forever love, his wife, his always companion, as he slipped a ring on my finger.
I burst out crying. I was completely overwhelmed. I couldn't even say anything. I couldn't even breathe. Then I tugged him off the ground, thinking of his knees, buying me time so I could gather myself before I whispered "Yes! You silly man, yes!" And then of course I apologized for calling him a silly man, which made him laugh. Then we danced to the music and then I realized his poor sister was probably hiding in the bushes somewhere, waiting for the all-clear signal, and then I yelled for her to come out, which was good, because her phone had died. We gathered a lot of the things up, including a dozen roses which were lovely and I hadn't even noticed before. Then I looked at the ring.
Sometimes,
one night can change everything. I knew he was going to ask me to marry
him, but I didn't know when, and the talking about it and the saying yes
are two very different things, let me tell you!! Not in a bad way, but it just surprised me.
Look at the look on his face! Aww. It melts me every time.
Also, a cheesy MV for your delectation and delight.
It started with a grumpy, stressed, slightly-put-out face on a Monday.
I was tired and out of sorts. My person had asked me to come up to hang out with him and his sister. A special treat for her, he said. She really wanted to see me, he said.
I did not want to go. I wanted to see his sister, and him, of course, but I did not want to expend the effort to make it happen. But because he asked so sweetly, and because I love him, I went, even though I knew I would probably regret it later, as I had a big test for work I needed to study for, and the trip up there was eating into my precious study time -- the test was in three days.
I left work late, due to circumstances beyond my control. Then, traffic was terrible, of course.
Upon my arrival, the house was in disarray. There were children running about and nerf wars happening and pizza left semi-unattended in the oven, but no sign of my man.
Grumpy cat-face came out. I was peeved: after taking the effort to drive in traffic almost fifty miles, he was not to be found in the house. Neither was his sister. Annoyed, I took over the pizza watch from the oldest nephew, who was doing homework, and stewed inwardly. "You could be studying for the test. Go out and get your study materials." I boiled a little. "Why are you even here? Why is he NOT here? He doesn't even have the decency to be here!" (I must have been really hungry about this point.)
And then he came home and said his sister had been called away to help a friend set up an event. I was practically eye-rolling at this point. Then, a few slices of soggy pizza later, he says that he wants to go check out what his sister has been working on. Suspicious. But I get in the car, even though it's almost bedtime for the kids and I am bemoaning the fact that I even came up at all, feeling it hadn't been worth the trip.
We parked and I saw only one car: his sister's. This was my first clue. Then he got a backpack out of the car. A second clue. Then we walked for forever with no sign of anyone. A third clue. The last clue I needed was when we got to a muddy patch and he said, "This is the only place where it's muddy." I thought, "Hmm, he has been across this path, and recently, too. I bet he doesn't realize he just gave himself away."
The stars were so bright. We could see Orion hanging low.
Then I saw some lights flickering through the trees. He had set up a mini wonderland...candles in large mason jars and twinkle lights on ivy-covered trees, along with music piped through a portable speaker. I was walking along, trying not to expect anything, and honestly a little unsure how I felt, as just that morning I had been conflicted and although I knew I wanted to be with him, I was waiting for a final, settled feeling that to say 'yes' was the only course -- and that feeling had not yet come.
We continued to walk along and then he tugged my hand. I was freaking out inside, looking everywhere and nowhere at the same time, especially not at him -- and then as I turned he got down on one knee and murmured lovely things and asked if I would be his forever love, his wife, his always companion, as he slipped a ring on my finger.
I burst out crying. I was completely overwhelmed. I couldn't even say anything. I couldn't even breathe. Then I tugged him off the ground, thinking of his knees, buying me time so I could gather myself before I whispered "Yes! You silly man, yes!" And then of course I apologized for calling him a silly man, which made him laugh. Then we danced to the music and then I realized his poor sister was probably hiding in the bushes somewhere, waiting for the all-clear signal, and then I yelled for her to come out, which was good, because her phone had died. We gathered a lot of the things up, including a dozen roses which were lovely and I hadn't even noticed before. Then I looked at the ring.
Sometimes,
one night can change everything. I knew he was going to ask me to marry
him, but I didn't know when, and the talking about it and the saying yes
are two very different things, let me tell you!! Not in a bad way, but it just surprised me.Look at the look on his face! Aww. It melts me every time.
Also, a cheesy MV for your delectation and delight.
Tuesday, February 2, 2016
dragons
You know, I used to think dragons were cool.
Giant lazy lizards that were rich, feisty, fiery, and pretty much impossible to kill. Very few weaknesses, except perhaps one loose scale somewhere and a ridiculous fondness for treasure.
The ones that can talk are even better. Dragons that can change forms back and forth between human and dragon are less cool.
Slumberous eyes, rumbly gravelly voices, gleaming claws and teeth, breath that could shrivel even the most stout of hearts with its fetid potency. [How do dragons kiss, one wonders? Perhaps that's a reason there seem to be so few dragons.]
I even got a dragon for Christmas, I thought they were so cool. Mine is wooden, so he's still all right...but all other dragons, forget it.
Why the change of heart, you ask?
It started with a germ. A germ that my immune system could not suppress before it spread. It lodged in my throat and nose. I don't know what was going on -- swelling, perhaps, from the rapid regeneration of sickly cells? In any case, it felt like my nose and throat were on fire. FIRE!
As my discomfort level rose, so did the frequency of my thoughts about dragons.
I came to the conclusion that being a dragon would be no good:
* you're a dragon, therefore living a solitary life, probably in a cave, or an abandoned mine, with no company except gold and errant knights, princesses, or trolls...and then you would probably eat the company, which is BAD FORM, so then you'd go back to being lonely. Not fun.
* your throat is always on fire. Always. Not just when you have a cold. My throat being on fire for even 24 hours for the second time in two months was enough to make me wish I never became a dragon, even in a dream.
* when you're a sick dragon, you have to drink lots of tea. So your sense of smell and touch and taste is all off, so the likelihood you will burn your tongue on said tea goes up about 1,052%. Then you're even more like a dragon. An irritated dragon with a burnt tongue. [How do dragons not burn their tongues when they belch forth their fiery flames, I wonder? These are the important questions that inquisitive minds demand be answered.]
I mean, really. How do dragons, who are cold-blooded (one supposes), muster the incredible amount of energy it would take to produce a flame? And do they have to keep swallowing flint and tinder in order to allow the strike necessary for the flame to come out? Or is it more like a flamethrowing trick and they just have a little nozzle that looks like an errant whisker at the corner of their mouths?
That would make more sense, and would also make most of this blog post irrelevant. I sense a science fair project coming on!!
Giant lazy lizards that were rich, feisty, fiery, and pretty much impossible to kill. Very few weaknesses, except perhaps one loose scale somewhere and a ridiculous fondness for treasure.
The ones that can talk are even better. Dragons that can change forms back and forth between human and dragon are less cool.
Slumberous eyes, rumbly gravelly voices, gleaming claws and teeth, breath that could shrivel even the most stout of hearts with its fetid potency. [How do dragons kiss, one wonders? Perhaps that's a reason there seem to be so few dragons.]
I even got a dragon for Christmas, I thought they were so cool. Mine is wooden, so he's still all right...but all other dragons, forget it.
Why the change of heart, you ask?
It started with a germ. A germ that my immune system could not suppress before it spread. It lodged in my throat and nose. I don't know what was going on -- swelling, perhaps, from the rapid regeneration of sickly cells? In any case, it felt like my nose and throat were on fire. FIRE!
As my discomfort level rose, so did the frequency of my thoughts about dragons.
I came to the conclusion that being a dragon would be no good:
* you're a dragon, therefore living a solitary life, probably in a cave, or an abandoned mine, with no company except gold and errant knights, princesses, or trolls...and then you would probably eat the company, which is BAD FORM, so then you'd go back to being lonely. Not fun.
* your throat is always on fire. Always. Not just when you have a cold. My throat being on fire for even 24 hours for the second time in two months was enough to make me wish I never became a dragon, even in a dream.
* when you're a sick dragon, you have to drink lots of tea. So your sense of smell and touch and taste is all off, so the likelihood you will burn your tongue on said tea goes up about 1,052%. Then you're even more like a dragon. An irritated dragon with a burnt tongue. [How do dragons not burn their tongues when they belch forth their fiery flames, I wonder? These are the important questions that inquisitive minds demand be answered.]
I mean, really. How do dragons, who are cold-blooded (one supposes), muster the incredible amount of energy it would take to produce a flame? And do they have to keep swallowing flint and tinder in order to allow the strike necessary for the flame to come out? Or is it more like a flamethrowing trick and they just have a little nozzle that looks like an errant whisker at the corner of their mouths?
That would make more sense, and would also make most of this blog post irrelevant. I sense a science fair project coming on!!
Thursday, January 7, 2016
mismatching pjs
It's no secret: I adore comfy clothes. My wardrobe scores greater than 90% on the Supreme Comfort test. (That probably means I can cull at least 10% of my clothes. But I'll write a blog post instead of going on a cleaning rampage just now.)
My adoration of comfortable things has been with me since before I can remember. I spend as much time as possible in the comfiest of comfies: pajamas.
The first pajamas I remember wearing was actually a nightie. It was She-Ra, Princess of Power emblazoned on the front that caught my attention. I had no idea who She-Ra was, but she looked pretty cool, with clouds and lightning bolts and all that.
Perhaps there was a zip-up before then, but it's fuzzy enough that I don't count it.
After that, there was a white nightie with pastel ribbons in a sort of loose plaid pattern. It was so soft. I shared a room with J&V at the time. I remember once I scared J so bad: I stood, stock-still, a few feet from her bed and just looked at her. I must have been staring pretty intently, because she woke up and nearly screamed because of the apparition-like vision before here: all white, close, in the dark, silent.
Then I discovered that nighties bunch at the waist, and that's just really lame. Goodbye, nighties. Hello, real PJs.
For some reason, it bothered my mom when I didn't wear matching PJs. Really bad. She'd mention it on an ongoing basis. My perverse small self did not like being told that I did not match. I knew I did not match. I did not care. I did not want to care. I wanted to have complete self-expression when it came to whether my to-bed clothes were conventional. I'm sure I felt stilted and that it was a release to be able to defy social expectations in this small way. But no. She just /had/ to insist that I matched, even when unconscious.
So I purposely wore mismatching clothes to aggravate her. Yes, it's petty. But then it became a habit. The idea of matching PJs just seems...odd. Somehow, every once in awhile, it still gives me a small sense of comfort to purposely reach for the most ridiculous "outfit" ever.
Guess when I started with She-Ra, I was unconsciously starting down a path of PJ subconscious power. (Ha. I'm funny.)
Wonder if Mom would start me with She-Ra all over again if she had known.
My adoration of comfortable things has been with me since before I can remember. I spend as much time as possible in the comfiest of comfies: pajamas.
The first pajamas I remember wearing was actually a nightie. It was She-Ra, Princess of Power emblazoned on the front that caught my attention. I had no idea who She-Ra was, but she looked pretty cool, with clouds and lightning bolts and all that.
Perhaps there was a zip-up before then, but it's fuzzy enough that I don't count it.
After that, there was a white nightie with pastel ribbons in a sort of loose plaid pattern. It was so soft. I shared a room with J&V at the time. I remember once I scared J so bad: I stood, stock-still, a few feet from her bed and just looked at her. I must have been staring pretty intently, because she woke up and nearly screamed because of the apparition-like vision before here: all white, close, in the dark, silent.
Then I discovered that nighties bunch at the waist, and that's just really lame. Goodbye, nighties. Hello, real PJs.
For some reason, it bothered my mom when I didn't wear matching PJs. Really bad. She'd mention it on an ongoing basis. My perverse small self did not like being told that I did not match. I knew I did not match. I did not care. I did not want to care. I wanted to have complete self-expression when it came to whether my to-bed clothes were conventional. I'm sure I felt stilted and that it was a release to be able to defy social expectations in this small way. But no. She just /had/ to insist that I matched, even when unconscious.
So I purposely wore mismatching clothes to aggravate her. Yes, it's petty. But then it became a habit. The idea of matching PJs just seems...odd. Somehow, every once in awhile, it still gives me a small sense of comfort to purposely reach for the most ridiculous "outfit" ever.
Guess when I started with She-Ra, I was unconsciously starting down a path of PJ subconscious power. (Ha. I'm funny.)
Wonder if Mom would start me with She-Ra all over again if she had known.
Wednesday, December 16, 2015
Cloudy
Cloudy, my thoughts are grey and white and cloudy
they seem to wander all around, you'll see
and distractions, they're all around
in a plethora abound
and my mem'ry's like a child's...
I abandoned concentration; is "fuzzy" valid style?
they seem to wander all around, you'll see
and distractions, they're all around
in a plethora abound
and my mem'ry's like a child's...
I abandoned concentration; is "fuzzy" valid style?
Cloudy, my thoughts are scattered and they're cloudy
They have no borders, no boundaries
They have no borders, no boundaries
They echo and they swell
From groceries to "what's that smell?"
From groceries to "what's that smell?"
like chasing rabbits down a well
it seems like all the jokes are new and sassy fits the bill
Hey sunshine, I haven't seen you in a long time
Why don't you show your face and bend my mind?
Why don't you show your face and bend my mind?
All questions now I find
I just leave them all behind
And let myself unwind
They don't know where they are going, and, my friend, neither do I
They don't know where they are going, and, my friend, neither do I
Cloudy, cloudy
Cloudy, cloudy
Cloudy, cloudy
Cloudy, cloudy
Cloudy, cloudy
Monday, December 14, 2015
party people in the house
Recently, I held a small soiree of sorts at my humble abode. An assortment of people came. I was so excited for it...ridiculously excited. It felt like Christmas morning and I was nervous over whether people would enjoy themselves.
First, no party happens because of just one person. Unless it's a one-person dance party, but even then, usually it involves music made by other people. So a true one-person party is rare, but should be cherished.
I had so much help with this party. I got a mild concussion earlier in the week and I was limited on driving. A friend of mine volunteered to pick some Christmas crackers for me (which were the highlight of the party), and I was so grateful. Another friend brought some folding chairs, as I did not have enough seating for my guests on my own. Yet another friend brought cream cheese and crackers to munch on. Another came to help me make hot cocoa mix, decorate, and brought Clementine oranges. Someone brought candy canes, which I hung up for more decorations. Lastly, a friend brought milk, eggnog, a record player, and good vintage Christmas vinyl.
We made food. We ate food. A children's book was read aloud. Christmas crackers were popped and jokes were read aloud. Music was listened to. Hot chocolate, eggnog, and all other comestibles were consumed. Then someone got out the guitar and started playing Christmas songs. Many others still in attendance sang. Then someone else took the guitar and the singing still went on. Then silly pictures were taken. Then I had a Grinch moment. Then we adopted the rules of "Yes or No" from A Christmas Carol and we played a round. Then the stragglers who were left went to a very late lunch, as nearly everyone was sugar-bombed. And then we said goodbye. I found out later someone in the party got a parking ticket, which made me sad.
Apparently I win the prize for "Best Non-Standard Christmas Party of 2015" -- so far. Several people told me they enjoyed themselves, and many people really liked the Christmas crackers and the sing-along. I guess having a party in the morning and then just doing what I like to do is enough to carry the day for that competition. Several of my friends were very excited, and I'm really glad that everyone seemed to have such a good time.
I felt like Ramona.."I'm going to have a par-tee! Here comes my par-tee!" Could hardly sleep a wink before the party for wondering if I would get everything done and there were a few last-minute cancellations, etc., that made things a little tricksy. But I so enjoyed myself, even if the first half hour or so was very stressful. I couldn't have done it without my MJ -- she took over the cocoa and getting the cinny stax out of the oven at the end.
There were pictures taken with crowns on, as well as with fake Rudolph nose, which really was supposed to be a magic trick. It was a good time.
Tuesday, December 8, 2015
recycling
it is a good thing
no emotion recycling
plants exist on earth.
some upwellings are
really too awful to bear
mulling or reuse.
talk about awkward.
speaking of which, I own the w's
you cannot have them!
________________________
on a separate note:
long, wavy, reddish
sparkly brown, voluminous
all describe my hair
Tuesday, November 24, 2015
Angry Birds
Once upon a time, there was a very popular app called Angry Birds.It was, for some time, the most popular game sold in the app store.
It has spawned its own full-length movie. (It won't be any good -- something that takes three seconds to explain is almost never a good 102-minute movie.)
It was actually truly amazing how the oinking pigs could mock you derisively through their little pixels and make you upset. Maybe even angry. Maybe that's why the game was so popular -- it made all the "birds" playing it angry.I'm going to tell you some things that seem unrelated, but they're not.
Today, I went and spent some time with a friend. We played with a bird. It was a dead bird that had been cooked. I was teaching her how to make broth. It will make a very tasty soup sometime. We had fun picking the meat off the bones and just generally laughing and talking together.
Late last week I had a bird adventure: I chased a band of coots in a current on foot. At least, my non-local but very loyal bird enthusiast contact assures me they were coots. I was mostly chasing them so I could tell her what kind of bird they were. I don't even like birds, really. When they bomb my car, I get upset. Angry, one might even call it. So annoying, the birds are! The crows with their noise and invasive ways, the geese with the honking and the droppings everywhere...the swallows and their porch-bombing habit...you get the idea.
Today, I got ANGRY. The scary part is, I kind of enjoyed it. It felt empowering to be so upset. I felt like my wrath was fully justified (highly unusual) and like it was useful (moving me along an emotional path I need to explore further). I was so angry. Angrier than even the Angry Birds! I have been angrier in my life, but I can only think of a handful of times where this has been the case. I reveled in the anger. It brought me joy and sparkle. Hot and spicy was how I felt today. Being mad at someone else instead of yourself is actually kind of liberating. No wonder people do it so often.
Monday, November 23, 2015
squish
squish
it's a nearly perfect word
onomotopoeic
able to be drawn out to match any circumstance:
squish
squeeeeesh
skaweesh
squishsquish
it looks odd if you analyze it
it is nearly impossible to misinterpret the meaning
it conjures up clear images when you say it
and applies to physical and emotional situations: squish a bug, feeling squished in your feelings
can be injected with horror, vehemence, playfulness
and also, many things that have been squished taste better as a result.
so it's not like it's all bad, this squishy business.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Mondegreen in Ceylon; Picture
A few things:
1. Playing with colors on your face (also known as "makeup") can be fun.
2. My hair is really long.
3. This song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fncjgN88xUE
4. In conjunction with this song, every person deserves to feel like "warm night air" in each of their relationships. There is nothing like that time when the sun goes down and the yellow-orange-green-fade-to-blue is streaking across the sky.
5. Watching this happen with someone you care about is the keenest of pleasures.
6. When the warm air surrounds you without being too hot or too humid--it's comforting, familiar, and you just relax, that's when you know it. 7. The people from Erasure knew what they were talking about when they wrote the lyrics, but I actually have been focusing on the happy part of the lyrics, and didn't even hear the sad part, really, until I went to look for the lyrics just now.
8. From the window in the kitchen/To the fireside by the chair/Sat in familiar surroundings, warm night air...
All the feelings I remember, I cannot hide/Not for want of trying
9. I have recently discovered that mostly, I don't want to hide my feelings. I want to feel them.
10. Now comes the funny part...I thought this song had lines saying "On, into Ceylon."
I was pretty impressed with the band's geography and history awareness. Little did I know it was just another mondegreen. The lyrics really say: Longing to sail on/Through the night to the stars/On until sunrise.
Oops. I still just love the overall feeling of this song.
11. The bottom picture reminds me of my niece. She sometimes stands the same way. I didn't realize we had a similarity like that. It makes me happy that we do.
12. My socks not being the same height makes me smile.
Saturday, November 21, 2015
beyond a solecism: made to look
Recently, I did something I'm ashamed of. I took a picture of someone who didn't know I was taking his picture. He was sleeping, though, and I didn't have the heart to wake him up to ask him.
I don't think I have seen someone who so obviously was so particular about how he looked in a long time. I mean, I know people who care about their dress and appearance...but this fellow was so meticulous, so exacting in his standards. I wondered if he was extremely insecure or just very confident. Probably a mixture of both, like most of the rest of us.
My eyes probably widened when I saw him. I had just sat down on the bus.
I noticed his hat first. It was the little feather, sticking jauntily just so, that grabbed my attention. Then I looked at the rest of his hat. It was perfectly clean -- no little bits of anything stuck to it. (With hats like that, it's hard to do. Trust me, I know.)
Then I looked at his face. (I had just seen pictures of the Facial Hair competition [I did not know there was such a thing] -- some of these are pretty outrageous.)
This picture doesn't do it justice...I was very impressed by his facial grooming. His beard was perfectly pointy. Perfectly. Perfectly enough that I imagined the chin it was hiding was classic storybook villain pointy, as well. His moustache blended in so well it was scary.
His nearly full length wool pea coat fit him as if it were made for him. He had a leather briefcase (black) that was on his lap, and a large umbrella with a wood handle (it was a knob, not a cane-head shape) was between his knees. His entire person was so very well put together, I wondered how long it had taken him to get out the door that morning...if he did it every day, or if this was the Wednesday Special.
We got off at the same stop. I walked behind him. He had on black leather half boots with silver zippers with pointy toes that clicked when he walked. As I walked behind him, I imagined that the silver was a sticking point with him, but that he had been looking for the perfect boots so long he decided he would accept this quibble and just move on. His step was measured. He walked resolutely, but carefully, as if he were wanting to get to the his destination, but wanted to not disrupt anything about his appearance or seemed rushed.
His hair, which was almost to the bottom of his shoulder blades, was trimmed neatly. The only thing that anybody could argue threw off his look at all was that his hair was not perfectly straight in the back -- it looked like it had some wave, but only in the last four inches or so. It was like he had partially braided it the day before and then didn't realize there were still braid marks in it today. (Not that I've ever had this phenomenon happen to me...)
I don't think I have seen someone who so obviously was so particular about how he looked in a long time. I mean, I know people who care about their dress and appearance...but this fellow was so meticulous, so exacting in his standards. I wondered if he was extremely insecure or just very confident. Probably a mixture of both, like most of the rest of us.
My eyes probably widened when I saw him. I had just sat down on the bus.
I noticed his hat first. It was the little feather, sticking jauntily just so, that grabbed my attention. Then I looked at the rest of his hat. It was perfectly clean -- no little bits of anything stuck to it. (With hats like that, it's hard to do. Trust me, I know.)
Then I looked at his face. (I had just seen pictures of the Facial Hair competition [I did not know there was such a thing] -- some of these are pretty outrageous.)
This picture doesn't do it justice...I was very impressed by his facial grooming. His beard was perfectly pointy. Perfectly. Perfectly enough that I imagined the chin it was hiding was classic storybook villain pointy, as well. His moustache blended in so well it was scary.
His nearly full length wool pea coat fit him as if it were made for him. He had a leather briefcase (black) that was on his lap, and a large umbrella with a wood handle (it was a knob, not a cane-head shape) was between his knees. His entire person was so very well put together, I wondered how long it had taken him to get out the door that morning...if he did it every day, or if this was the Wednesday Special.
His hair, which was almost to the bottom of his shoulder blades, was trimmed neatly. The only thing that anybody could argue threw off his look at all was that his hair was not perfectly straight in the back -- it looked like it had some wave, but only in the last four inches or so. It was like he had partially braided it the day before and then didn't realize there were still braid marks in it today. (Not that I've ever had this phenomenon happen to me...)
Friday, November 13, 2015
A Pressing Matter
* It is always more fun to press cider with other people than with yourself. Kind of like a barn raising, quilting bee, corn husking, or any other sort of work "party." * 20 lbs of apples = 1 gallon of cider. No wonder it tastes so good -- all that fructose, condensed!
* Pressing cider is the most fun when you do it in a fun, beautiful location. (See picture <--. You'll get what I mean.)
* When you freeze apples before you press them, your cider turns out a lot differently -- more like applesauce than apple cider. It's not a bad thing -- just leads to extra thick, almost syrupy goodness. W says it's because the freezing action helps break down the cell walls.
* Pressing is a multi-step operation.
1. Buy apples
2. Wash apples
3. Cut apples into halves
4. Put the straining sack in the barrel.
5. Put the barrel under the press.
6. Use the press, hand cranking, to chop the apples into tiny bits that go into the bag.
7. When the bag is full, close it up, ties inside, and put the lid on the barrel.
8. Screw the lid of the barrel down tightly. Leverage (see yellow rod) helps. Don't get dizzy!
9. Enjoy the hissing and popping of the fruit and watch as the juice oozes slowly out of the cracks in the barrel.
10. When you can't press any more juice out, let it sit under pressure
11. Unscrew the lid. This is actually harder than it looks because your hands will probably be cold and it is hard to unscrew something smoothly.
12. When you've unscrewed it enough to clear the barrel top, remove the barrel and the bag for cleaning. 13. Tilt the table to make the juice run into the container under the spout.
14. Funnel the juice into your final carrier.
15. Enjoy!!!!
* And then you enjoy dinner, ever so tastily. And enjoy the view, too. This picture of one of my favorite people basically sums up how I felt about Pressing Day.
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